Teachers' wellbeing and self-worth are of paramount importance if they are to nurture similar confidence in their pupils. Elizabeth Holmes discusses what steps can be taken to support this important area of CPD.
Self-worth comes from one thing – thinking that you are worthy. (Wayne Dyer)
Is it possible to nurture the wellbeing of others if we don’t nurture it in ourselves? Is it possible to separate the professional and the personal when it comes to learning on the job? To what extent does the development of self-worth feature in the professional learning plans of your school? These questions are provide food for thought in this post.
I regularly run training and development sessions for school staff on enhancing wellbeing at work. These sessions are both a privilege and a challenge to run: a privilege, because wellbeing for school staff is arguably the most important professional learning goal for schools, and a challenge, because so often teachers tell me that focusing on wellbeing feels self-indulgent.
I often take time out of the session to explain that developing wellbeing at work isn’t only acceptable, it’s essential. Far from being self-indulgent, it allows us to focus on self-development. Wellbeing is a challenge: it requires us to acquire self-knowledge, and that doesn’t come easily. The less demanding option is to indulge in self-destructive habits which destroy our confidence and our work performance. But being a victim of circumstances is neither big nor clever.
The fact is, there are real limits to the extent that we can nurture wellbeing in others if we are incapable of allowing ourselves to focus on it. If our belief is that wellbeing and self-worth are an indulgence or psychological frippery that macho teachers can do without, the impact that any professional learning can have will be fundamentally flawed.
There’s a bottom line here which has to be faced, and that is: supporting your wellbeing and self-worth at work isn’t just OK – it’s more than that.
Without being given, and accepting, the permission to put wellbeing first, the progress we can make with pupils’ learning and development is necessarily limited. If this permission isn’t forthcoming from within an individual it has to be made explicit in the workplace, and one of the most effective ways of achieving this is through the blending of the professional and the personal in the development that your school undertakes.
Do we have an option on this? Not if we’re serious about our commitment to the wellbeing of the children in our care.